如果。。。

今天在听广播时，有位参赛者读出了她对梁文音的“如果”的听后感。我突然有所思。。。

“如果”是希望的，是想要的，他不是结果。一般情况。。。当您在想“如果”怎样怎样时。。。现实跟希望已经不一样了。。。所以，您才会想“如果”不对吗？那不一样的现实就是结果！

很多人会因为现实的差异而做以下的动作：1.幻想若发生了完美的如果，2.怨天尤人，3.反省检讨那里出错然后做出改变。

您呢？您会如何？

与其在一边幻想或怨天尤人，您不如付出行动来改变现在的这个现实。。。那比较实际吧？

您开心吗？

开心可以很简单，您相信吗？

我们常把一些事看得过于复杂，所以不快乐。例如，车子塞在车龙里。通常我们会觉得烦躁，不爽——在车里大声叫骂。另一些人就有不一样的想法与做法。他们会利用这段时间来做一些不是很重要，但又该做的事——通电话（为公路安全，各位一定要用耳机）。通电话是哪门的“不是很重要但又该做的事”？抱歉，我是个“保险佬”，也是个小组组长，所以跟顾客或其他组员联系是我的“工作”之一。跟顾客聊天，慰问他们近来是否安好或关心其他组员可以促进彼此的关系。跟顾客聊天对业务有帮助，因为您分分钟可以成交一份保单。跟其他组员联系可以了解他们遇到了什么事，需不需要帮忙。。。

我在去年的ING云顶大会的一个讲师身上学到一句“每件事的发生都是好的。”当时，我也想一般人一样“什么事都是好的？怎么可能？”经过一年后我才明白这一点。例如他所说的，“事情本身是没有好坏之分”。好坏是那件事对每个人的意义，所以事的好坏是您给予“它”的。若以乐观看待事物它就是好事，但以悲观看待它就是一件坏事。。。“一念天堂，一念地狱”大概就是这个意思吧。。。“念转运转”是导您往乐观的方向去。

开心可以很简单，您相信吗？想想，您近来开心吗？开心？恭喜您。不开心？为什么？是您把事情复杂化了还是您还没把事情想清楚？

朋友们，开心并不是“奢侈品”也不是什么遥不可及的东西。。。它是心里的一个感觉。。。您有权利拥有“它”。。。只是，您会去争取“它”吗？

开心真的可以很简单。。。

“念转运转"

在云顶的“三天两夜”的课程当中。。。印象比较深刻的是一位由严重口吃到现在激励讲师的吴进益导师。

他的“课程”并不太难-《念转运转》！

在他那课中我看见了念的“强”。。。当场把人变成“铁条”。

（“铁条”先生与吴导师的合照）

念是指“信念”。但何谓“信念”？其实，意念只是个想法。当意念被相信后，它就会变成信念。你相信什麽，什麽就会成为你的信念，你就会得到你所相信的，成为你所相信的人。

很有趣吧。。。单单一个想法竟然会有那麽大的威力。吴导师出了一本书《念转运转》。书的内容讲述信念的威力，如何从信念造就成功。

当中我所觉得很有趣的一句“如果您改变了您的思想，您将改变您的情绪；如果您改变了情绪，您将改变您的信念；如果您改变了您的信念，您将改变您的态度；如果您改变了您的态度，您将改变您的行为；如果您改变了您的行为，您将改变您的表现；如果您改变了您的表现，表现重复将成为您的习惯；习惯重复会形成思想高速公路，人也会因习惯而成功，因习惯而失败。人生是一连串的选择，成功也是良好习惯选择的结果。”

犹如谁能载舟，也能覆舟。。。一个单纯的念就能影响您的成败，所以要常心存“好念”。成功就在转角。

South Korea(Corporate Incentive Trip Tier 2)

How to capture the essence of this fascinating, complex nation? Social relations may be grounded in ancient Confucianism but South Korea is most decidedly a forward-thinking country thanks to its hurry-hurry approach to everything, an insatiable appetite for technological advancement and an indomitable can-do attitude. No one knows where the country is headed, but it’s fast-forward all the way. That’s what makes South Korea so exciting and at times unnerving; it’s a country of endless possibilities. Seoul is where this is felt most keenly. There’s an infectious energy here and it’s easy to get caught up in the Korean joie de vivre, as well as the city's non-stop attractions. Less modern but no less appealing is the ancient city of Gyeongju, where temples, pagodas and royal tombs are a source of much fascination. Further south, the bustling port town of Busan is a little rough around the edges but rewards those travellers willing to persevere. Few international travellers explore the countryside, which is a tragedy and a blessing. Serene temples, picturesque mountains, lush rice paddies, unspoiled fishing villages and endless hiking opportunities are so far off the beaten track, it’s unlikely you’ll meet any Westerners (or even English speakers) on the road less travelled. Voyage to the remote, unspoilt islands of Dadohae Haesang National Park, or head to the charming backwater of Buyeo for its historic Baekje relics and lively covered market. For a somewhat less rural (and considerably more surreal) experience, there is Panmunjom & the DMZ Tour - the closest you can get to North Korea from its southern neighbour.

Spain (Coporate Incentive Trip Tier 1)

Spain is more than bullfights, flamenco dancers and crowded beaches. It's a spectacular and diverse country, the north resembling the rolling, green hills of Ireland and the south giving you a taste of Moroccan landscapes and architecture. Its tremendous history is reflected in its prehistoric cave paintings, Moorish palaces, crumbling castles, Roman ruins, Gothic and Renaissance cathedrals as well as some very distinctive modern architecture. The uniqueness of Spain lies in the separate kingdoms which made up the original Spanish nation. These regions remain diverse in their language, culture, cuisine and art. They include: Andalucía, Aragon, Asturias, Basque Country, the Balearic Islands, the Canary Islands, Cantabria, Castilla La Mancha, Castilla León, Catalonia, Extremadura, Galicia, La Rioja, Madrid, Murcia, Navarra and Valencia. Areas of interest are not limited to each region.

Greece (Romantic...Great for Honeymoon)

Greece is situated in Southeastern Europe, with an area of 131,957 sq.km. and a population of 10,964,020. Athens is the capital of Greece with a population of 3,192,606.Local time is GMT +2 hours.

In Greece, you are standing at crossroads of cultures, colours and civilisations, you feel the grandeur of history and the warmth of being at the southernmost part of Europe, you discover the evolutionary process of thought, influence and experience. A country with a uniquely affluent historical past, inhabited by people gazing confidently and optimistically into the future. A country that although statistically small, is huge in its diversity. A landscape that has given us thousands of postcard images but remains incredibly vibrant and impossible to capture.
Greece is a country of beautiful contradictions, a constant journey in time, from the present to the past and back again. Walk through the olive groves, through ancient sites. Move to clusters of sparsely inhabited islands. Roam from beaches to rocky mountains and explore the breathtaking scenery. In Greece the fusion of images becomes more than imagery and turns into reality.
Explore your senses in Greece.